Say you had to choose a future between two very opposite men:
Would you stay with a guy who has low self esteem, anger management issues, constant family crisis, is very pessimistic and constantly worries about money problems for the sake of passionate love and perfect chemistry? As a couple, you’ll always have the feeling that nobody/nothing can tear you guys apart. Are you willing to put up with all that and maybe even worse knowing you will be one of those couples who grow old and will forever have that passion for each other?
Or would you rather settle for a guy who you have decent chemistry with (not great but not that bad either) who treats you well, knows how to treat a lady and keep you satisfied, has a great future ahead of him, has money, tends to be very optimistic, is loyal/faithful, and causes you a lot less stress overall? You won’t be happy-go-lucky with your life, but at least content knowing he can provide everything and is a great companion, someone who will be there when you need them, listens, cares, and most of all is loyal to you.
It comes down to a very complicated man who will provide you with passion but drama, or a loyal man who will be satisfying but lacking excitement.
You can only choose one! Which is more important to you?
Source:Datingish.com
If you are feeling today that your life is empty, meaningless or purposeless because of your past experiences or a sense of loss, please know that God has awesome plans for your life. He says: “For I know the plans I have for you—plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11) It doesn’t matter how old you are, or what your background is—God is able to fill your life with new purpose and meaning. Start asking Him to do something new and wonderful in your life. Trust Him to begin revealing the “new thing” He has planned for you as you determine to let go of what lies behind and reach out for what lies ahead. Remember that endings pave the way for new beginnings. Today, be encouraged by this precious promise from God: “Arise [from the depression and prostration in which circumstances have kept you—rise to a new life]! Shine (be radiant with the glory of the Lord), for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you!” (Isaiah 60:1 AMP)